FEAR OF DISCOVERY

liersOkay, so why is it that you can never get a straight answer out of some people?

It’s maddening to me.  Instead of answering “yes” or “no” to a patently obvious question, some people have to beat around the bush and never come to the point of answering the question.  Frankly, it gives me a case of the “tight jaws.

I have a theory about this for your consideration.

I believe that the reason they don’t answer the question is because they have something to hide.  It is either something that they feel would damage their reputation; or something that they can’t face up to talking about; or it’s something that they have done that they wish they hadn’t and now have to STOP any talk about that area for the FEAR OF BEING FOUND OUT.

Such people are a pain to be around or to communicate with at all.  They are always hedging their communication, beating around the bush, explaining way too much, justifying unnecessarily, all in an attempt to prevent the discovery of what they are really up to!

They are uncomfortable with the truth so they have to attack the messaenger.

Basically they are liers!  They are not comfortable to be around or to talk to.  They’re always dodging and attempting to focus attention away from themselves and on to YOU.

I guess they figure that if you’re looking at yourself, you won’t be looking at them . . . and FIND OUT WHAT THEY’RE DOING! They live in a constant fear of being found out.

And I guarantee you . . . they are doing something reprehensible, discreditable or dishonest.  There is no doubt.  Don’t trust them.  They are lying to you and they are lying to themselves.  Everything is all set up in this justified package so they don’t have to think about it and here you are reminding them of it all over again.  It could be something small, like spitting in your soup, or pissing in your gas tank or something far more sinister.  But rest assured, they ARE doing something that they know is degraded or represensible.

They will secretly hate you only because you reminded them of their indiscretions.    These are not the type of people you should be hanging around.  They are not your friends!  Get rid of them!  FAST.  They are TROUBLE.

Take my word on this one.  The amount of worry and trouble they can cause for you (and themselves) is beyond belief.  Get rid of them!!!!!  NOW.

Okay, why are you still here?  What are you waiting for?

daniel w. jacobs
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